Tuesday, August 27, 2013

The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh





Unlike many people who were captivated from the beginning of the book, I struggled with connecting to Victoria from the start. She was angry, and sometimes chose to bully her social worker, which is something I have little tolerance for. But as the book progressed, she grew on me and entered my heart. 



If I could give Victoria one flower from her dictionary, it would be a Narcissus flower, for self-love. Her obvious feelings of unworthiness to her love interest and her foster mother made me want to be her friend and feed her the donuts the adores. I really think she was a well constructed character in the end, with flaws and charms like any other real person.


The story made me weep, which I always think is a good sign for a book. I was satisfied though, with what it gave me. But something didn't sit completely right at the end. Like many other readers, I thought the ending was rather predictable. I like optimism as much as any other misanthropic bookseller, but I felt that it was unrealistic. Maybe Vanessa Diffenbaugh's point was not to wow us with a twist ending though. Maybe her point is that of the floral arrangements her character made: just like receiving a bouquet of lily of the valley (return of happiness) and pink roses (grace) can make someone person who makes the world a better place...maybe a book containing the same lessons on forgiveness and love can make our world more loving, too. To the author, I would give bellflower. Gratitude.

Saturday, August 24, 2013

Bookstravaganza!



In preparation for my course Fantasy and Science Fiction: The Human Mind, Our Modern World I bought 20 books today. Twenty. Twenty. Not all of them were for the course, but most were.

I've never been happier.

Not just about the books, and the class, but about my life too. When things are going well, I think it's important to have gratitude. My life isn't perfect, but I have so much to be grateful for, and that's enough reason to be happy. 


Friday, August 23, 2013

The Secret by Rhonda Byrne



When I started The Secret audiobook just days ago, I was curious but also reluctant to believe. For those who haven't read it, the basic concept of the book is that of the Law of Attraction being the secret to life. The idea is that your thoughts create frequencies which attract the situations, people, and prosperity in your life. At the beginning I felt like this was a bunch of mystical, religious propaganda. But after getting halfway through the book and practicing its methods as I went along, my opinion has drastically changed.

This idea is real. If you think positive thoughts and focus on images of what you WANT out of your life, those images start to become a reality. On the other hand, if you think very negative thoughts and focus on images of what you do NOT want to happen, you will receive so much negativity and fear. 

It seems obvious that a very negative thinker would continue to have a negative life, right? I am reminded of my friend from high school, Alexis. When I met Alexis, we were both struggling with anger issues and very toxic relationships. I was quite uncomfortable around her when I started school there. She was very outspoken, sometimes to the point of making girls cry in the hallways. Yet as I got to know her, I found that she was a fierce friend with a lot of talent and a beautiful soul. But she continued to be in battle-mode everywhere she went.

The next year at school, it was obvious that something had changed in her. She was so strong, and graceful, and even balanced. She told me she had read this book, The Secret. I didn't pay much attention to that at the time, but now that I'm reading it I genuinely wonder if the book had some influence on her changed behavior. If the title of a book she read stuck with me over years, it must be important. 

It's no surprise to hear that our thoughts and emotions influence our lives. But what if we can use this fact to empower ourselves to be more positive? Book or no book, I'm trying to write down at least three things I am grateful for each day. And I've started redirecting my focus from fear to hope. And I really feel the universe working in tune with me.

Once I got a fortune cookie with a fortune that read "We cannot control the wind, but we can adjust the sails." So I'll start with my thoughts, and maybe the universe will flow with my positivity.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Five Books to Awaken Your Artist Within

I got back from NYC yesterday, after shooting my short film for five days. While preparing for the film, I made a top 5 list of books that have helped me nurture my inner artist. Some of them are books I'm still reading, so I'm not doing reviews of them yet.